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Trauma Therapy
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Trauma Therapy in Pasadena, CA

Trauma-informed therapy for adults navigating PTSD, complex trauma, attachment wounds, dissociation, anxiety, emotional overwhelm, and painful relationship patterns. Palomares Therapy offers relational, depth-oriented trauma therapy in Pasadena and online throughout California.
Led by Danielle Palomares, LMFT, a trauma-focused therapist with advanced training in EMDR, attachment, complex trauma, and relational therapy.

When Trauma Is Still Living in the Present

Trauma is not only about what happened in the past. It can continue to live in the body, nervous system, relationships, self-worth, boundaries, sleep, sexuality, parenting, work, and the way you respond when life feels unsafe or overwhelming.

You may feel anxious, numb, reactive, disconnected, hypervigilant, ashamed, or exhausted from trying to hold everything together. You may know, intellectually, that you are safe now— while another part of you still feels braced for danger.

Trauma therapy creates space to understand these responses with compassion, build safety in the nervous system, and begin healing at a pace that does not overwhelm you.

Signs trauma may still be affecting you:

  • You feel constantly on alert
  • You shut down or go numb
  • You feel responsible for everyone else’s emotions
  • You struggle to trust closeness
  • Your body reacts before your mind can catch up
  • You feel shame about responses that once helped you survive
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Types of Trauma We Work With

Traumatic experiences can take many forms. Some are single events. Others are repeated, relational, developmental, cultural, medical, or systemic experiences that shape the nervous system over time.

PTSD & Single-Incident Trauma

Support for trauma after accidents, assaults, medical events, sudden loss, natural disasters, or other frightening experiences that continue to feel unresolved.

Complex Trauma & Developmental Trauma

Therapy for trauma that happened repeatedly or over time, often in relationships, families, childhood, or environments where safety, repair, or protection were inconsistent.

Attachment Trauma & Childhood Emotional Neglect

Support for early relational wounds, emotional neglect, fear of abandonment, people-pleasing, shutdown, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, or difficulty trusting closeness.

Dissociation, Numbness, DID/OSDD & Parts

Care for clients who experience emotional disconnection, memory gaps, parts of self, internal conflict, or protective responses that developed as ways to survive.

Relationship Trauma & Betrayal

Support for trauma connected to betrayal, coercion, abuse, attachment injuries, rupture, or relational harm that has made closeness, trust, or safety feel difficult.

Neurodivergence, Masking & Trauma

Trauma therapy for ADHD, autistic, AuDHD, highly sensitive, or otherwise neurodivergent clients whose nervous systems may have adapted through masking, people-pleasing, shutdown, sensory vigilance, or feeling chronically misunderstood.

Vicarious Trauma, Caregiver Stress & Helper Burnout

Support for therapists, physicians, healthcare providers, crisis workers, caregivers, and other helping professionals who carry the emotional weight of others’ pain, trauma, illness, loss, or emergencies.

Medical, Crisis & Disaster Trauma

Support for trauma related to illness, medical procedures, caregiving, crisis work, wildfires, loss, or frightening events that disrupted your sense of safety.

IN THE ROOM WITH US

Our Approach to Trauma Therapy

Trauma therapy at Palomares Therapy is integrative, relational, and tailored to each client. We draw from evidence-informed trauma modalities while staying attuned to your nervous system, identity, history, and pace. Rather than forcing one method onto every client, we collaborate with you to find an approach that supports safety, insight, emotional integration, and lasting change.

EMDR can help the brain and nervous system reprocess traumatic memories, triggers, and experiences that still feel emotionally charged, intrusive, or unresolved.
Trauma often lives in the body. We may integrate grounding, body awareness, imagery, and Trauma Resiliency Model-informed practices to support regulation, resourcing, and safety.
For many clients, trauma is relational. We explore how early attachment experiences, emotional neglect, betrayal, or unsafe relationships shape trust, boundaries, closeness, and self-worth.
Many trauma responses are protective, even when they create pain in the present. Parts work and Coherence Therapy help us understand internal conflict, shutdown, shame, and patterns that feel hard to change.
Trauma can shape the stories we carry about ourselves, our worth, our relationships, and what is possible for our future. Narrative Therapy helps make room for agency, dignity, and identities beyond what happened.
EFIT is an attachment-based approach to individual therapy that helps clients slow down emotional patterns, understand protective responses, and build more safety within themselves and their relationships.

Why Choose Palomares Therapy for Trauma Therapy in Pasadena?

Trauma therapy works best when it is clinically thoughtful, paced with care, and responsive to the complexity of your life— not reduced to a worksheet, script, or one-size-fits-all treatment plan.

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Advanced Trauma Training

Palomares Therapy is led by Danielle Palomares, LMFT, a trauma-focused therapist with advanced training in EMDR, attachment, complex trauma, crisis intervention, and relational therapy.

Relational and Attachment Depth

We understand that trauma often shows up in relationships: in closeness, conflict, trust, sexuality, boundaries, parenting, and the ways you protect yourself when connection feels unsafe.

Neurodivergent-Affirming and Identity-Affirming Care

We offer trauma therapy that considers neurodivergence, LGBTQIA+ identity, culture, family systems, power, and lived experience. Your context matters here.

A Boutique Practice with Clinical Depth

Palomares Therapy offers thoughtful, personalized trauma therapy for clients seeking more than a generic approach. We take time to understand the patterns, histories, and protective responses shaping your life now.

Meet Your Trauma Therapists

Danielle Palomares

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
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IN PERSON + TELEHEALTH
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Danielle Palomares is the founder and practice owner of Palomares Therapy and a Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist. Trauma-focused therapist with advanced training in EMDR, attachment, complex trauma, dissociation-informed care, and relational therapy.

Daria Kalimán

Registered Associate Marriage & Family Therapist
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Daria Kalimán is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist at Palomares Therapy who offers warm, relational trauma therapy. Her work is informed by parts work, somatic practices, and integrative trauma-focused interventions.

In-Person Trauma Therapy in Pasadena & Online Across California

Palomares Therapy offers in-person trauma therapy in Pasadena, CA and online trauma therapy throughout California. Our office is located at 210 S. Orange Grove Blvd. in Pasadena, with clients visiting from Pasadena, South Pasadena, San Marino, Altadena, Eagle Rock, Glendale, Monrovia, and greater Los Angeles.

For clients who prefer telehealth or live elsewhere in California, virtual trauma therapy can provide a private and accessible way to begin trauma-informed care.

By appointment only.

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Common Questions About Trauma Therapy

What happens in the first trauma therapy session?

In the first trauma therapy session, we take time to understand what brings you in, what has been feeling overwhelming or stuck, and what kind of support you are hoping for. We may talk about current symptoms, past experiences, relationship patterns, nervous system responses, or the ways trauma is affecting your life today.

You do not have to share every detail of what happened before you feel ready. The first session is also a time for you to ask questions, get a feel for the therapist, and begin building a sense of safety and collaboration.

 

Do I have to talk about everything that happened?

No. Trauma therapy does not require you to tell every detail of your story before healing can begin. For many people, trauma memories are fragmented, overwhelming, or difficult to put into words.

We work at a pace that feels safe and focus on helping you understand your responses, build regulation, and process trauma without overwhelming your nervous system. Some trauma therapy involves talking, and some may involve EMDR, parts work, somatic awareness, grounding, or other approaches that do not require retelling every detail.

Can EMDR help with trauma?

EMDR can be helpful for many people whose traumatic experiences still feel emotionally charged, intrusive, or unresolved. EMDR therapy can support the brain and nervous system in reprocessing painful memories, triggers, and experiences that continue to feel present.

At Palomares Therapy, EMDR may be integrated with attachment-focused, relational, parts-based, and nervous-system-informed care depending on your needs and readiness. We do not rush into trauma processing before there is enough safety, preparation, and support.

What is complex trauma or CPTSD?

Complex trauma often refers to repeated or prolonged experiences of threat, neglect, emotional injury, or relational harm, especially when they happen in childhood or in important relationships. Complex trauma can affect emotional regulation, self-worth, boundaries, trust, dissociation, sexuality, identity, and relationship patterns.

Many people with complex trauma do not simply feel impacted by one event. Instead, they may notice patterns of shame, shutdown, people-pleasing, hypervigilance, fear of abandonment, difficulty trusting closeness, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions.

Can trauma therapy help if I do not remember everything clearly?

Yes. Many trauma survivors have fragmented, unclear, or incomplete memories. Some people remember what happened but feel disconnected from it, while others have body responses, emotional reactions, or relational patterns without a clear narrative attached.

Trauma therapy can still help you work with present-day symptoms, nervous system responses, emotions, beliefs, and relationship patterns without needing a perfectly linear memory of the past.

How is trauma therapy different from regular talk therapy?

Trauma therapy pays close attention to safety, pacing, the nervous system, protective responses, and how past experiences continue to shape the present. While regular talk therapy can be helpful, trauma-focused therapy often works more intentionally with the body, memory, attachment patterns, dissociation, shame, and survival responses.

Depending on your needs, trauma therapy may include EMDR, parts work, somatic awareness, grounding, Trauma Resiliency Model-informed practices, Coherence Therapy, Narrative Therapy, relational therapy, or other trauma-informed approaches.

Can trauma therapy help with anxiety, shutdown, or emotional overwhelm?

Yes. Trauma can show up as anxiety, panic, emotional numbness, shutdown, irritability, overthinking, perfectionism, people-pleasing, difficulty sleeping, or feeling constantly on alert. Sometimes people do not initially identify these experiences as trauma responses.

Trauma therapy can help you understand what your nervous system is trying to protect you from, build more capacity for regulation, and create new ways of responding to stress, relationships, and emotional triggers.

Do you work with attachment trauma and childhood emotional neglect?

Yes. Attachment trauma and childhood emotional neglect are important parts of our trauma-focused work. These experiences can shape how you relate to closeness, trust, conflict, boundaries, emotional needs, and your own sense of worth.

For clients whose trauma is rooted in early relationships, inconsistent caregiving, emotional neglect, fear of abandonment, or relational wounds, we may integrate attachment-focused therapy, EMDR, parts work, somatic awareness, and relational therapy.

What does trauma-informed therapy mean?

Trauma-informed therapy means we pay attention to safety, pacing, consent, collaboration, cultural context, and the ways your nervous system learned to protect you. At Palomares Therapy, we do not treat trauma responses as signs that something is wrong with you. We understand them as adaptive strategies that may have helped you survive, even if they are now creating pain, overwhelm, shutdown, or disconnection.

Do you offer online trauma therapy in California?

Yes. Palomares Therapy offers online trauma therapy throughout California, as well as in-person trauma therapy in Pasadena. Online trauma therapy can be a supportive option for clients who prefer telehealth, have busy schedules, live outside the Pasadena area, or feel more comfortable beginning therapy from their own space.

For local clients, we can discuss whether in-person therapy, online therapy, or a combination of both feels like the best fit.

Whether you’re navigating PTSD, complex trauma, attachment wounds, dissociation, emotional overwhelm, or painful patterns that continue to shape your life and relationships, you do not have to find your way through it alone. Trauma therapy can offer a space for safety, integration, and deeper understanding at a pace your nervous system can tolerate.
If you’re ready to begin trauma therapy in Pasadena or online in California, we would be honored to support you.