Relationships can bring us into contact with some of our deepest needs— for closeness, reassurance, freedom, recognition, and emotional safety. These articles explore what happens when partners become caught in painful cycles, why insight alone is not always enough to change them, and how couples can begin creating something different together.

Recurring conflict is rarely just about the subject being argued over. This article explores the emotional cycle beneath repetitive fights and why both partners can feel increasingly alone, even when they are trying to reach one another.
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